Don't get me wrong I love Twitter and Facebook. I even had a MySpace page for a while, but there is also the side of me that hates social networking. See it all started when I owned my first computer in 1997. I was still married to my first husband Shannon at that time.
He found a friend Candee in a chat room and had an affair that lead to the end of our marriage. I came close to having a nervous breakdown at the time. I just didn't have time for one. My husband left me with a 9 year old child to raise and all of the bills and I only had a part-time job. So, I had to put off my nervous breakdown to work two jobs. I think the work is what kept me sane while my life was falling apart around me.
After a few years of working and putting my self through school I received my degree and was able to only have work one job. I remarried, his name is Billy Joe. We had a beautiful little girl together, but all is not fine in this relationship. See he has found an old girlfriend on Facebook. They are texting and talking to each other secretly. This concerns me because since I have had our daughter I have gained a lot of weight and I already feel like my husband is ashamed to be seen with me.
He claims he loves me and that there is nothing between them, but see I have been down this road before. The only difference this time is I make more money than him, everything is in my name so I have nothing financially to lose. I just have to deal with a broken heart.
I wish I could trust my husband about this girl but it is hard to trust when has been lying to me about who he is talking to on the phone and who has been texting him. I have already went through a lot in our relationship that I know I will someday write about, but today my subject is the fact that I think married men should not secretly talk or text an exgirlfriend or anybody else they meet online.
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